tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3930653948090538640.post7410150015042005918..comments2023-10-20T06:20:22.769-07:00Comments on Living With My Shadow: Frustration...Patricia J. Moscahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16370400543375022824noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3930653948090538640.post-33388506337269787272010-01-26T06:08:47.085-08:002010-01-26T06:08:47.085-08:00you are the GOOD WIFE !!!!!!!no matter what! plea...you are the GOOD WIFE !!!!!!!no matter what! please do not even think of doubting yourself!!!!!!!!!<br />love you tons<br />bbthe glitzy gypsyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14944166942520762656noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3930653948090538640.post-80751748503312767522010-01-25T13:38:34.628-08:002010-01-25T13:38:34.628-08:00Oh, sister, such hard questions! When you told Mi...Oh, sister, such hard questions! When you told Michael that you would follow the Doctors orders and your own gut; what was his reation? <br /><br />If he's not remembering short term things repeat this statement again when it becomes necessary or write it out and post it where you both can see it.<br /><br />We're back in Atlanta with our son and have been here since just after Thanksgiving. His cancer has returned, 11 months after his donor transplant. His bones are comprimised and he has two broken arms. <br /><br />Not a lot he can do for himself, it's so frustrating for him. We try very hard to let him have as much power as possible. We don't always agree but there is that element of this being HIS JOURNEY!<br /><br />I'm not sure about BLAME Pattie. I know you're trying your very best under very difficult circumstances. Everyday we do something that causes consternation, but we've pretty much learned to let it go by the end of the day or sooner, otherwise, we JUST COULDN'T DO THS!<br /><br />Please know that you are not alone and sometimes we feel like we're groping in the dark. <br /><br />I will continue to hold you and Michael in my prayers.Pat Dalkehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02043582033654234382noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3930653948090538640.post-3220893261476034632010-01-25T09:22:47.308-08:002010-01-25T09:22:47.308-08:00Oh Patty, I hear ya girlfriend. In my case it'...Oh Patty, I hear ya girlfriend. In my case it's am I a good daughter or a know-it-all. I often get, "so when did you go to medical school?" The difference being my dad isn't nearly as sick as your hubby so it's just him being ornery. <br /><br />Listen to you gut. I think that's the answer. Your gut is right there next to your heart and your heart knows what to do. Trust you and be understanding with him. Then "just do it"!Merry MEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00462036349233154101noreply@blogger.com